Let's talk, Dating

My fellow people, dating is mind-boggling and complexed. Don't get me wrong, the experience is very valuable but the technical parts are always a winding maze to go through. The whole process of accepting someone into your life is horrifying when you're one of those people that don't wear your heart on your sleeve.

I admit. I am that type of person with my walls built higher then the Burj Khalifa, the tallest building in the world. There was once a guy who actual decided to woo me, but he might have approached me in a way that I couldn't accept. Just messaging me on Facebook... I don't think I can live with that. He was a sweet guy, but to break down my walls he's going to have to try harder than that.

Honesty, I wasn't ready to let anyone in yet. I probably just used that excuse of him not doing it right, and brushed him off. I mean who am I to say what is the right and wrong way to court someone. I feel so bad right now for not giving him a chance, but if it happened again I would most likey do the same thing again...

~MissJuliet

Let's talk, Fate

My fellow people, fate is unexplainably confusing. It's wishful for people to believe that  something will happen purely because of fate. I am one of those foolish humans. We all like that idea of having something good happen to us, because it was meant to happen. In reality though, we have no clue if destiny is a thing. It's a belief, and that's what it'll stay until it can be proven otherwise. 

Sweet love stories that claim to have happened because of fate is quite extraordinary. Though, was fate the one thing that was completely responsible for joining the two souls? I doubt that's the case, but it's wonderful to think that it did.

I'll admit that fate is something I believe in, and it's my reasoning for everything almost. I feel so idiotic blindly trusting in something that may not even exist. It's my only escape from how much reality is against me, and wants to destroy me.

Let's talk, First Love

My fellow people, love is indeed the most questionable thing on Earth. There are many questions to be asked about the concept of love. Here are my answers to some questions about love in general.

How do you know it's love? :

Well, I really have no clue how I figured it out, but it was clear as day when I did. I actually was trying to deny it at first, but that didn't work.

What does being in love feel like? :

I would say overwhelming. Mainly, because this guy has no idea how I feel about him to this day.

How do you look at other guys now? :

I see the good things in them, but I don't feel much attraction to them.

Now, more specifically about my experience of unrequited love.

I think every teenager has gone through the stage of having a first crush. It's a fresh feeling, if you know what I mean. The nervousness, of just being near that person. I clearly still remember my heart pounding every freaking time he was in the premises. That was the beginning part of the crush.

The feelings slowly, but surely evolved into much more. When I finally got to know him better, I just fell right into that well. It was weird; I'd never felt this way about anyone else before.

I was never one to truly believe in fairy tales, and that applied to how I wished to be with him. It wasn't impossible, but I wasn't one to initiate anything. My intuition was against my wishes. I had a good understanding that I wasn't his type.

~MissJuliet

Let's talk, Romance

My fellow people, though I do write almost all of my stories in the romance genre, I personally have about .00001% experience with actual relationships. Sure I am in high school, the golden time of dating, but there's one problem. I don't have much interest in young teenage boys, which may I add are somewhat idiots.


Okay, I'll admit that I'm kind of a drama addict. You can't deny that those Korean guys are mouth-watering.


You may say that dating is not the most important thing that one should be worrying about in high school, and you are absolutely correct. Or, you may say it's a good idea to find someone, because why not it's high school. I personally want to find my ideal self first, before I get involved in someone else's life.


I confess that I'm scared of being with someone. I've figured that there's so much to sacrifice in a relationship. I still don't have that courage to let someone see how vulnerable I really am.

 

One guy has actually been bold enough to sorta woo me, but it seemed to me that maybe he was doing it wrong. Because chatting only over Facebook, is not the ideal way to get someone to like you back. I mean I've never been courted before that incident, but I'm pretty sure it doesn't work that way.

 

I would really like to get to know that person well, before I begin anything with them. I think building a friendship underneath would definitely help with how smoothly the relationship runs.

~MissJuliet